The Pitfalls of People-pleasing

Welcome to a brand new episode in our Misconstrued Beliefs series! Last week, we tackled lies we tell ourselves about our business’s financing.  This week, we’ve got a belief that I hear from nearly every friend and colleague I reach out to: ‘If I’m not liked by someone, I’m not worthy of being liked by […]

October 4, 2022

READY AIM EMPIRE : The Pitfalls of People-pleasing

Welcome to a brand new episode in our Misconstrued Beliefs series!

Last week, we tackled lies we tell ourselves about our business’s financing. 

This week, we’ve got a belief that I hear from nearly every friend and colleague I reach out to:

‘If I’m not liked by someone, I’m not worthy of being liked by anyone. 

If my studio is not appreciated by someone, it isn’t worthy of being appreciated by anyone.’

I hear y’all. 

And I confess, I still struggle with this. 

Being from the Deep South, I’m a people pleaser through-and-through. 

And boy, is it difficult to always need to be liked. 

So instead of trying to give you concrete advice here, I’m just gonna share the steps I’ve been taking to deal with these feelings. 

So join me as I take you through the three questions you might need to start asking yourself, my replaced mantra to deal with negative opinions, my personal struggles with nasty comments and much, much more.

Y’all, it’s been a long battle, but this might just get us both to the other side!

In this episode you’ll learn:

  • Why I say that I am a people pleaser…
  • How social media has brought a lot of gain (and pain) into my life and business
  • The three questions I have started asking myself lately
  • The mantra I practice every day to help combat these feelings to be a better leader

LINKS:

https://www.instagram.com/studiogrowco

With grit & gratitude,

Lise

If you liked this episode...

then you'll love these too!
How to Save 50% of your Cancellations with Heather Plum and Amanda Blair

Say hello to the most power-packed, transformative studio marketing retreat you’ve ever seen! Join us for 2 days of actionable training with studio marketing veterans, quality networking, and customized 1:1 coaching in gorgeous Marina Del Rey.  Ready to stop surviving and start thriving? Y’all, cancellations can be frustrating when you’re a studio owner.  You put […]

Boundaries For Bosses With Beth Potter

Say hello to the most power-packed, transformative studio marketing retreat you’ve ever seen! Join us for 2 days of actionable training with studio marketing veterans, quality networking, and customized 1:1 coaching in gorgeous Marina Del Rey.  Ready to stop surviving and start thriving? If there’s one thing I’ve learned after running multiple businesses all these […]

How to Sell Your Studio

Say hello to the most power-packed, transformative studio marketing retreat you’ve ever seen! Join us for 2 days of actionable training with studio marketing veterans, quality networking, and customized 1:1 coaching in gorgeous Marina Del Rey.  Ready to stop surviving and start thriving? Profit in mind, purpose at heart. That’s always been my motto for […]

Profit Now: 3 Metrics That Will Transfer Your Profits

Say hello to the most power-packed, transformative studio marketing retreat you’ve ever seen! Join us for 2 days of actionable training with studio marketing veterans, quality networking, and customized 1:1 coaching in gorgeous Marina Del Rey.  Ready to stop surviving and start thriving? One thing many studio owners forget while they’re working hard for their […]

Stay up to date!

Sign up here to get friendly reminders when new episodes are up.

Want to be interviewed on the pod? Head over here to tell us a bit more about yourself + what juicy lessons you have to share.

Hit enter to search or ESC to close